[Leica] In memorium " a Jaylen tear rose."

[glehrer at san.rr.com (Jerry Lehrer)]

Mr. Grant,

Some cultures believe that family grief is best kept private.

Others  "rend their garments", beat their breasts and hire professional 
mourners to wail with them.

Most are with you, in spirit.

Jerry


Ted Grant wrote:
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> "A Jaylen Tear Rose." 
>
> Some folks on list know how kind and wonderfully supportive the LUG is in
> times of family tragedy.
>
> It isn't always cameras and pictures, but when something occurs we reach 
> out
> to our screen family for support, because in many cases we are friends who
> communicate daily. We may not know you by face, but we know you by your
> written feelings and words. 
>
> As each of our grand daughters were born, 4 in all, we planted a rose bush
> in the garden naming each after the girls, Kate, Sasha, Terra and Emily.
> Some twenty plus years now since the first. 
>
> Kate being the oldest became a mother to a beautiful young lady 5 months
> ago. Jaylen, whom we watched growing quickly via Katies weekly internet 
> sent
> photos. Using her "grandpa camera." 
>
> In any event Jaylen's rose bush wasn't planted as quickly as it should've
> been. As happens "we're too busy or other stupid excuse." The idea was we'd
> plant it right along side her mother Kate's.
>
> Sunday morning I was about to leave for the garden shop to buy a bush and
> get it planted. However as I was about to leave we received a phone call 
> the
> wee young lady had died! To say the least our family was, is devastated.
>
> I didn't know where to turn for support or to cry on a shoulder. 
>
> The LUG? And it's moments like this when we find out how wonderful the LUG
> Family really is.
>
> Yep our own caring Padre, Rev. Kenneth Frasier helped me get squared away
> and comforted even though living many thousands of miles a cross the
> continent. Along with a word or two from our own Brian Reid.
>
> So with extremely heavy heart, never mind shedding tears. Monday morning
> Irene and I went to the garden shop, purchased a beautiful pink rose bush,
> brought it home and planted it beside her mother Kate's.
>
> It has been appropriately named "Jaylen's tear rose." Because when I
> finished planting and watered it down, the droplets of water appeared much
> like tears, Jaylen's and our's one more time.
>
> I would like to say to all of you that simple things like planting a rose 
> or
> other small thing in the name of a family member should never be put aside
> for any reason! Simply because you never know.
>
> Thanks Padre Ken you are the best!
>
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