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Subject: [Leica] Reorganizing my equipment collection
From: steve.barbour at gmail.com (Steve Barbour)
Date: Wed, 30 May 2012 21:31:58 -0700
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as for me, married for 45 years to one woman, now she has dementia.....we 
are still married.


quite yer bitchin,   as far as I can see, people with marital problems who 
have never been married, is an oxy moron, and is quite possibly a self 
fullfilling prophecy,


Steve



On May 30, 2012, at 9:26 PM, Tim Gray wrote:

> On May 31, 2012 at 08:25 AM +0530, Jayanand Govindaraj wrote:
>> Same here. Neela and I are 33 years married. I think the younger 
>> generation in the West seems to be unable to work through problems 
>> inherent in a relationship, being brought up the last few decades with a 
>> very strong sense of entitlement, which percolates down to relationships 
>> as well. 
> 
> Many (most) of my friends are married.  We are of the 'younger' generation 
> and live in the 'West'.  They seem to have no problems working through 
> their problems, including the ones that arise in their relationships.  
> Many of them have been married for 5+ years.
> 
> Divorce rates have certainly risen in the last couple of decades, but as I 
> read the data, it's not my generation who seems to have the problem.  The 
> number of divorces sky rocketed in between 1970ish and 1980 [1] [2].  More 
> or less when the 'younger' generation was born.  Marriage rates are seem 
> to be down in the last 15 years, making the rate rise, but that's no 
> surprise.  After all, we are talking about people whose views are 
> influenced by being raised by the generation who was responsible for the 
> big rise in divorce, raised in non-nuclear families.  I also know plenty 
> of people my age who are in long term, healthy relationships who see no 
> need to get married.
> 
> This was true in 2007 in the US [1]:
>> Despite the common notion that America remains plagued by a divorce 
>> epidemic, the national per capita divorce rate has declined steadily 
>> since its peak in 1981 and is now at its lowest level since 1970.
> 
> Not too bad for the 'younger' generation.  That article attributes the 
> rise in divorce rate in the 70's in the US to the adoption of no fault 
> divorce laws in most states.
> 
> I get so sick of broad generalizations of my generation, particularly when 
> they aren't founded in data or reality, but prejudices of entitlement and 
> other bullshit.
> 
> [1]: http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/mvsr/supp/mv43_09s.pdf
> 
> [2]: 
> http://www.guardian.co.uk/news/datablog/2010/jan/28/divorce-rates-marriage-ons
> 
> [3]: 
> http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/18600304/ns/us_news-life/t/us-divorce-rate-falls-lowest-level
> 
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